Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Sparkly Things Make Me Happy

Much like last week, work this week has been kind of frustrating. My mantra seems to be, "I hate my boss. I hate my boss." This is nothing new. So at lunch today I decided to go to a jewelry sample sale. I thought, "What the hell? I'll treat myself to something nice." I figured I'd get myself a belated bday present since I did dub this decade the jewelry decade, and I haven't purchased a piece of birthday bling yet. The first year of the decade started with a Tiffany charm bracelet, followed by a Tiffany initial pendant, then came the Tiffany Aries pendant. Well, this year Tiffany isn't quite in the budget, so I decided sample sale jewelry would have to do.

Anyway, this little shopping trip was exactly what I needed. There were so many beautiful pieces, I just couldn't decide what to get. Who is this jewelry designer you ask? Her name is Diana Warner and her stuff is soooo cute. A couple of years ago I was going through all these online clips I'd saved looking for a birthday present for WH when I saw the perfect necklace, which happened to be designed by Diana. I loved it for two reasons 1) I felt the necklace made the perfect symbol of our friendship and 2) part of the proceeds went to providing water to people in Africa. Thankfully, the gift was a hit and we both became fans of this designer.

When she moved her business to New York, I attended her first sample sale. I dragged JL (now JM) and we both got all giddy and excited about all the pretty jewelry laid out in front of us. Diana was there and such a joy to talk to that it was hard not to be excited about her stuff. She helped JM pick the perfect stone for her necklace and she recreated a bracelet for me that I had been eyeing. My creation ended up being somewhat of a one-of-kind piece because she ran out of the original links and had to substitute them with something else. To this day, I still get compliments on the thing. Her employees even asked me about it at the sample sale because they'd never seen it before today. Too funny.

After going through every drawer and bin in her studio, (what--she said I could make myself at home) I decided to get myself two bracelets. The first one was the Fancy Nancy bracelet:

The one I purchased had a gunmetal finish and a gray crystal. I originally had a silver one with a deep blue crystal, but I kept getting drawn to the gunmetal. So, in the end, I purchased both. I may end up giving the silver one to my sister for her birthday since I designed it with her in mind. Yes, I was able to customize it by picking out the metal and the stone. So much fun!

Here's the other bracelet:

I didn't actually buy all these stacking bracelets, although I'm a little tempted to go back tomorrow to get another one. The one I did purchase is the smallest one of them all. I'm a simple girl and I really like how that lone bracelet looked on my wrist. Just that little bit of sparkle was enough to make me happy.

And because I love my sister for causing minimal drama while I was home, I did purchase a necklace for her that I know she'll love. Why will she love it? Because Blake Lively wore it on Gossip Girl, and my little sister loves that show and Serena Van der Woodsen. There wasn't a product image on the site, but here's the Ryan layering necklace on Serena:

You can't really see it that well in the pic, but trust me, it's cute. I'm almost tempted to keep it for myself. I'm actually going back tomorrow to pick up something WH has requested. Who knows? Maybe I'll pick up another sparkly thing for myself! If you're looking for a present that's fun and unique or want to splurge on yourself, I highly recommend going to her site: dianawarnerstudio.com.

Now the reason I needed a little retail therapy was because when I returned from my fabulous vacation last week, I came back just in time for the handing out of envelopes. Thankfully there weren't little pink slips inside. Instead, there was a letter telling us that due to the economic climate, all of our paychecks were going to be cut by 10%. Yes, after hearing that news retail therapy should have been the last thing on my mind, but a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. The bright side to all of this is that I still have a job and I'm getting 10 extra vacation days to help ease the blow. That brings my grand total of vacation days to 30. What does that mean? I can use some of that tax refund money and a few of those days for another trip back home to SoCal! I can also take time off for another possible road trip to NC, a visit to TN and a fall trip to Maine. And I can even take a day or two off when I have visitors! Yes, bright side indeed. Although, how can I afford all these trips when my income has been slashed by 10%? Easy...I only go to places where I have free lodging and I mooch off my amazingly awesome, generous friends. Plus, it doesn't hurt to have a sister who works for a major hotel chain. See? So simple.

I may hate my boss and have less money, but I'm really trying to make the most of my situation by reminding myself every day to be thankful for what I have. Who knows? I could be collecting unemployment and selling all my stuff in a month.

Besides the sparkly jewelry, I found another reason to be happy: Bryan Greenberg released some dates for his summer tour and put up two new songs on his site. Today CR said I was his stalker. I suppose she's right, and I'm OK with that. I really wish I could see his show in L.A., but I'm counting on DS to stalk on my behalf. I'm sure he'll be releasing his NYC dates soon and when he does, I'm buying tickets. Anyone want to go with me? I promise I won't embarass you. Check out his "I Sorta Have a Girlfriend" song on his MySpace page. It's pretty funny. He played it at his last concert in NYC, and I busted up laughing.

Another music note...I'm loving the new Marie Digby, Kate Voegele and Mandy Moore songs. All three of them have albums coming out soon and I can't wait!

OK, tomorrow is Thursday (awesome TV day) and then it's Friday! I love Fridays!

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Vacation Recap

It was kind of difficult for me to get back into the swing of things last week. I found myself going to bed late, waking up early and having no desire to do anything at work. I guess that's what happens when you come back from a week-long vacation. But more on the crappy work week later. Right now I'd like to recap my great birthday week--only because I don't want to think about work tomorrow. Without further ado...

Day 1: My first full day back in SoCal and my body wakes up at a ridiculous hour. After forcing myself to go back to sleep, I wake up two hours later and decide to run errands with my Mom. Later that night, RM took me, my sister, RJ and SJ to dinner at The Loft at the Montage.

Ate a whole lot of food, but the best part was the chocolate birthday souffle with strawberry sauce. O.M.G. Sooooooo good. Thank you RM! I wish I would've remembered to take a picture of it, but I was so focused on eating it, I totally forgot. The funniest part of the meal was when SJ ordered Jell-O with whipped cream and sprinkles. Why is this funny? A) The Montage is a fancy resort hotel for the rich and famous and B) if you saw SJ you wouldn't expect him to order this kiddie dessert. After dinner we went back to RJ and SJ's apartment to watch the first half of Twilight. Everyone and their mama has been trying to get me to read the book or watch the movie. Although it wasn't the best teen movie I'd ever seen, I can see the appeal. But don't worry, I haven't jumped on the Twilight bandwagon. I think the thing I find fascinating about all this is the fan following...and the behind-the-scenes goings on.

Day 2: Easter for my family was spent at church followed by the Angels game. Luckily for me, my team was able to pull off a win for me. We beat the Red Sox 5-4 to win the series.


Unfortunately, Red Sox Nation was alive and well, especially in our area. I think I heard "Let's go Red Sox!" more than "Let's go Angels!" We really need to work on that Angels fans. It's a little embarassing. Baseball games are much more exciting live and go by much faster. I admit that sometimes watching a game on TV is a little like watching paint dry.

Day 3: Since everyone was at work, I decided this was the perfect day to hang out with my favorite stay-at-home mom. After hitching a ride with my sister to work, AD picked me and we went to get the kids at school. I've known those munchkins since they came into the world nine and eight years ago, and I can't get over how much they've grown every time I see them. When K climbed into the minivan and handed me two tiny flowers and said she missed me, my heart swelled. It was such a small gesture, but so sweet. Funny how kids know just what to say to make you smile. We then went home so the kids could do homework and AD could get dinner started for the kids and her husband. I decided to sit and watch High School Musical 3. Now, before you start pointing and laughing at me for watching Twilight then HSM3, keep in mind that I needed to pick a movie that was kid-friendly. I couldn't watch The Haunting of Emily Whatsherface in front of the children. And yes, I did want to watch HSM3. You can laugh now.

When her husband got home we headed out to get our own dinner. We went to one of my favorite restaurants, Islands. I ordered a Rincon burger with cheddar fries. Yum. I love me some cheddar fries with a side of ranch. After dinner we went to Wal-Mart to pick up some things for the kiddie bags for K's bday party. Then we were off to Huntington Beach to walk two miles:


Apparently my dear friend has been going to the beach almost every day to walk and decided to drag my lazy ass with her. I have to say I'm very proud of her. She looks great. And if I did move back, I'd probably join her as often as I could. It's a nice walk and it was fun to have someone to talk to while getting some exercise. Plus, I love the beach at sunset. It's one of my all-time favorite views.

I finished off the day by getting some Yogurtland with my sister on our way home. Days like this are great.

Day 4: The Big Day. My first official birthday greeting came at 12:01 a.m. from JG. Although, if we're counting EST time, it was actually 12:01 a.m. EST from WH. SS sent me a cute bday picture message that I just had to share with you:

Alf wanted to say...


What's so special about Alf? Well, at my last job, CR and I were talking about Alf one day. Not sure how the topic came up, but a couple days later, this doll, along with a mini version, appeared at work. Apparently CR decided we needed Alf in the office and ordered him on eBay. He came with a Hawaiian shirt and for some reason I had Hawaiian gear at my desk so we dressed him up. That egg scepter came from a flower arrangement DS sent me for one of my birthdays and the skull was added later by one of the other office gals. After CR left she passed Alf on to me. When I left, SS took care of him. Alf has somehow become the mascot of our old office--just a reminder of how things used to be. I miss Alf.

Anyway, the texts and calls came rolling in and of course, I loved every minute of it. :)

Here's a special bday present I got in my email from LI:


Almost every year, if he's inspired, he'll send me one of these. The first drawing he sent for my bday was an illustration of this snowman character based on me. After that, he'd create cartoon strips of her doing random things that I'd probably do. This one is very representative of me: lounging in front of the TV, my favorite Super Bowl ad, my dream of a wall of TVs, strawberry pie and of course my angry face. I love it! My family totally laughed when they saw it.

OK, so the day started off with some confusion, but then at lunch my mom, sister and I met up with my aunt and cousin for my birthday lunch at Lucille's. Biscuits, fried green tomatoes, pulled pork and some sweet tea. So good. I love BBQ.

After lunch I made a trip to the local library's bookstore and picked up a few books--one of my favorite things to do. I picked up five hardback books for $5. Such a great deal! We then went to my aunt's house to pick up her dog, a golden retriever name Roxy. She is such a sweet dog with prettiest face you've ever seen:


See? So cute. I decided I wanted to take her to PetSmart and get her a toy. Unfortunately, the poor thing didn't like the store. The whole time we were in it her tail was between her legs and she kept shaking. She practically bolted out the door after we paid for her toy. Once she got in the car she was all smiles and happy pants. We then went to the dog park to let her run around and play with the other dogs. We again learned something new about our sweet dog--she's a little antisocial. She had no interest in playing with the other dogs. They kept coming up to her, but she always turned around and walked back to us, nudging our hands so we'd touch her. The one good thing about Roxy is she loves people and did go up to a few, including a cute a guy. So she does make a good wingdog.

Before taking Roxy on a doggie playdate with RJ & SJ's dog Gizmo, we stopped at the house to change since a superhyper dog named Kona kept jumping all over us and getting her dirty paws on our clothes.

While we were home, my sister's dogs, two chihuahuas named Mocha and Bruce, went a little crazy when they say Roxy. Along with the standard barking, Mocha decided she needed to attack Roxy by biting the hair near her hind legs and butt. This was funniest thing I'd ever seen. At one point Mocha latched on and held on as she hung there while Roxy just kept on walking like nothing was happening. Crazy dogs. I wish I had a camera handy. Just so you have a visual, this is what Mocha looks like:


Yes, she looks like she should be saying, "Yo quiero Taco Bell." If anyone from Taco Bell has stumbled upon this pic and needs a new spokesdog, contact us. Anyway, just picture her hanging from a golden retriever's ass. Very funny.

And here's a pic of Bruce just because he's adorable:


We had dinner with N, S & Gizmo at Jerry's Dogs. What started out as a beautiful, sunny day turned into something from The Day After Tomorrow. Clouds started to roll in, the wind was picking up and the temps were dropping fast. After quickly eating dinner (we were outside because we had the dogs) we hightailed back to the comfort of N&S's apartment. We caught up with RG on the phone, played with the dogs and finished the second half of Twilight.

It was a pretty low-key day, but that's pretty much what I'd envisioned for my birthday.

Day 5: This was my big L.A. day. My sister and I headed up the 405 to check out the comic book exhibit at the Skirball Cultural Center. Here are a few pics:






I ended up purchasing a book about the exhibit and a Lois & Superman magnet for my fridge. The exhibit was pretty cool. I wish we could have taken pics of the stuff behind the glass, but that wasn't allowed. One of the museum guys pretended he was going to turn us in for accidentally taking a picture with the flash. I called him on his bluff. He thought he was being all sly, but I have a pretty good BS detector.

After the museum, we decided to go to The Grove to get something to eat and catch a movie. If you read gossip rags and sites you know that there are a lot of celebrity sightings at The Grove. So, my sister was determined to see at least one celebrity on this outing. We grabbed a late lunch/early dinner at the Farmer's Market food court area then went to watch Fast & Furious. I can hear the chuckles now. Yes, I loved the movie. Go ahead, mock me. I love me some Paul Walker, especially when he's behind the wheel of a fast car. There's just something about blonde-haired California surfer dudes that appeals to me. And yes, when they make the fifth installment of this series, I will be there with a huge grin on my face.

So, once we left the theatre, we passed by the Barnes & Noble where we saw a sign that said Bob Barker was there for a signing. My sister's celebrity sighting. She was so excited that I thought she was joking. When we went inside to get a glance at "the legend" as my sister so eloquently put it, I thought we'd snap a pic from afar and leave. Ummmm, that's not what she had in mind. After tons of begging and pleading on her part, we ended up in line with his book in her hand and she met Bob Barker:


Yes, my sister is crazy, but you gotta love her.

When we got home we ended up making eggrolls with my mom all night. Nothing like quality time with the family. Also, waiting for me at home was a box of tasty treats from WH:


Yummy! I was so excited, I totally tore into one of those frosted sugar cookies.

Day 6: My sister and I spent the morning with my aunt eating breakfast and doing a little shopping. Then I took my sister to work and headed over to TGIF at The Block to have dinner with my wonderful ENT girls, DS and NG. When I hang out with those girls we end up talking for hours about everything under sun. I think we spent an hour in the parking lot just talking about random stuff. I have such a great time with them every time I see them.

Day 7: I just hung out at the house with the dogs. After running around all over the place, this is exactly what I needed. Later that evening, PB & HB took me out for a birthday dinner at Islands. I told you I loved this place! Their daughter is one of the cutest kids on the planet, but for some reason my charm just doesn't work on her. The minute I got into the car and said hi to her, she started screaming her head off. I pray that one day she'll recognize me and not run off screaming. Normally that only happens with guys.

Day 8: NJ & SJ picked me up for brunch at Jerry's Deli (where SJ, Mr. Tough Fighter Guy, again ordered the Jell-O with whipped cream and sprinkles--you should have seen the expression on our waitress' face) and a trip to the Pet Expo where I ended up buying a few things for the dogs that included a cute crate pad, a "Jersey Girl" shirt for Mocha and a "Bitches Heart Me" shirt for Bruce. I should have taken a picture of them sporting their shirts. When we got back to my house, I was greeted by friends yelling, "Surprise." Yes, the entire time my sister was planning a surprise party for me. Honestly, I did suspect something like this in the works, but I decided to go with it and let it all unfold, which was pretty damn entertaining. Watching RJ slap SJ's hand down when he held up his iPhone (boldly displaying my sister's name) in the car was priceless. My mother cooked up a feast and I had my friends there--what more could I ask for? Seeing all the happy, friendly faces was the best way to end my vacation. Thanks to all the people who showed up. It really meant a lot to me.

Day 9: This vacation was as close to perfect as it could be, which made it difficult for me to board the plane. I sat in the airport looking out the window at a perfect California afternoon wondering when I'd make it back again.

Little did I know that the news waiting for me back at work would make it possible for me to return sooner rather than later. But like I said...more on that later. I really need to get to bed.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

I'm Baaaaack

Just wanted to post a quick note saying that I'm back on the east side. My trip was fabulous--more details to come! Unfortunately, my body hasn't quite adjusted to being back, and I've been so tired I haven't been able type any coherent thoughts. Perhaps this weekend I'll be able to string together more than a few sentences. Tonight I'm going to try to go to bed at a decent hour, which means now. But I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for your birthday wishes. It really means a lot to me when I get those texts, emails and cards, and when my favorite people find time to celebrate my favorite day with me. So thank you, thank you, thank you--I love you all!

Friday, April 10, 2009

Special Delivery

It's late and I should actually be in bed right now, but I'm doing some last-minute things before I jet off to the West Coast tomorrow. The week before I leave for a vacation is always so hectic at work, but for some reason, it's been a little more difficult this time around. There are a lot of things I'm responsible for, which means there's a lot I need to get ready for those who are covering for me.

My boss always experiences anxiety when I'm not at my desk, and I'm really hoping she refrains from picking up the phone and calling me with some stupid problem that can easily be fixed when I return. Unfortunately, my boss' anxiety causes my coworker to feel uneasy, which means she's going to be a little more stressed out than normal next week. Then there's the officemate who's taking on the bulk of my work. Normally she's pretty calm, but today it became clear to me that she might be getting a little nervous as well. Yes, I work in a very nervous office.

Anyway, once I tie up all my loose ends and send everyone their personalized email update, I'm off to Cali for a much-needed vacation. But that's not the only thing I'm looking forward to on this trip. This time of the year, especially this particularly month, is my favorite because it's my birthday month! It's the one day of the entire year when it's all about me! Me, me, me! Yes, I'm that self-centered and obnoxious on my birthday. Live with it.

When I woke up this morning, I had the unfortunate misfortune of my alarm going off in the middle of a really great dream. Don't you hate it when that happens? When I shut it off I desperately tried to get back into the dream, but I just couldn't. I was so annoyed I thought this day would totally suck. Yes, work was chaotic, but shortly after I arrived at the office I received a very special delivery. One of my very thoughtful friends sent me flowers for my birthday, which instantly brought a smile to my face. Although I'll be seeing her next week, she decided to send the flowers early instead of breaking tradition. Here are my pretty flowers sitting on my desk:

My officemate has kindly offered to water them while I'm gone, so we'll see if they're still alive when I get back.

To brighten the day a little more, my officemate received a package of her own--a box of Godiva chocolates from one of our photographers. Of course we ripped that sucker open and started inhaling them. We had no intention of sharing those wonderful morsels with anyone. I think we still have some left for tomorrow.

But the surprises didn't stop there. When I got home, I was very happy to find a birthday card among my endless number of bills. The card was so cute, I just had to share it:

My dear sweet friend is great at picking out cards that reflect me and our friendship. She knows my love of strawberries runs deep, so this card is pretty perfect. Plus, who doesn't love the musings of a child?

I'm very excited to be home for my birthday--it's been a while since I've actually spent it with my family and friends in SoCal. Every year my birthday wish is to have ALL my friends together in one place, but the reality is that just can't happen when they're spread all over the country. Oh well, that's OK. As long as they remember me on my day, then that's good enough for me! Yeah, I'm talking to you Mr. Perpetual Mixtape and Mr. Reset Button. We don't want a repeat of the 2007 bday debacle. I kid, I kid...sort of. Didn't I tell you I was obnoxious?

Anyway, I'm not sure if I'll be blogging from the West Coast, but I hope everyone has a Happy Passover or Happy Easter! I'm off to see if I can get last night's dream back. :)